How To Teach A 3 Year Old To Write (2024)

I get a lot of emails from parents and teachers asking for advice about teaching, worried about children being behind their peers, and looking for ways to help them “catch up.” When I saw a query asking how to teach a 3-year-old to write, my heart sank. No 3 year old needs to be able to write. Some young preschoolers can write at 3, some 3-year-olds can read, some can ride a bike with no training wheels… but that doesn’t mean we should expect ALL three-year-olds to write, read or ride a bike without wobbly training wheels. What we should be doing is creating a strong foundation for the skills that will eventually lead to writing. This is how you teach a child to write. We can’t expect our students and children to be able to successfully learn skills like reading and writing if we don’t focus on the foundation. So these activities are how to teach kids to write.

How to teach a child to write? Start with a strong foundation.

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Activities To Build Hand Strength for Writing

The muscles in the hands need to be developed if we want kiddos to hold a writing tool for more than a few seconds. These activities are great for this development. When children have these skills more fully developed, they will be ready to write.

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Make Letters With Playdough – squish, squeeze and form letters with this fun playdough activity. This is a great 3 year old writing activity. It’s great for 4 and 5 year olds too.

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Glue Tracing Letters – squeezing glue bottles is hard and a great hand workout too.

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Playdough Bug Fossils – push the bug in and carefully peel it out. Your students won’t even know they are building handwriting skills with this playful activity.

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Clothespins are fantastic little tools that build hand strength, and these clip activities work on hand-eye coordination too!

Fine Motor Activities for Pre-Writers

Fine motor skills aren’t JUST for writing, but they are essential for it. Children can’t be expected to tackle handwriting if they have underdeveloped fine motor skills. Bonus these skills are also crucial for using utensils like forks and knives, buttoning their pants, and zipping up their jackets <– I am HERE for that!

This bead tray is used ALL the time in my classroom, and it’s survived through many years of use too.

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Lego is a fun tool for building fine motor skills that doesn’t feel like “work” for children but gives their fine motor skills an enjoyable challenge. This Lego Roll and Build Game is my favorite, but Lego challenges are great too.

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Embellish playdough animals with small bits and bobs and build fine motor skills.

Stickers are my favorite cheap material for fine motor skills building. This Sticker Station is so simple and totally perfect for preschool.

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Do you have a kitchen utensil holder with holes in it? This one is from IKEA and is a super useful fine motor tool for my preschool classroom. Get yours here with my affiliate link ( I make a small commission from sales) –> IKEA Utensil holder.

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If you celebrate Christmas in your classroom, I love this Christmas lights activity.

Hand-Eye Coordination Activities for Preschool

A vital component for developing handwriting and other self-help skills is strong hand-eye coordination. Without this children won’t know where their hand is moving to, or to master directionality when making marks which will eventually become letters and numbers on paper.

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Playdough Kabobs – you don’t have to use sharp skewers for this hand-eye coordination activity, popsicle sticks work great too.

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Color matching while working on hand-eye coordination with this fun flower activity.

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Using feathers is a fun sensory addition to this hand-eye coordination activity.

Vertical Activities To Build Arm Strength

The most uncomplicated vertical activity for children to build arm and shoulder strength for muscle development is paper on the wall, chalk at an easel, even a whiteboard with dry-erase markers. If you are looking for something a little different, here are some of my favorite mural activities for kids. Yes, these are all writing activities for three year olds, even if it’s not what writing activities would look like for you or I.

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This Sticky Easel is rad for helping children to develop the shoulder strength needed for writing.

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My students love this sheep activity, and they don’t even know that they are working on skills that will help them write someday.

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Button Mural – this is fantastic for fine motor as well as arm/shoulder strength!

Explore all kinds of skills and build arm strength simultaneously with these fun mural ideas.

How Do You Make A Great Writing Center?

When your students are interested in making marks on paper, chalkboards, and more, it’s time for a writing center.

Are your students having fun making marks on paper? Then they are ready for an engaging writing center. Check out my tips for a rad writing center.

Looking for more great preschool activities?

HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT TO FIND INSIDE EVERYDAY PRESCHOOL:

  • Over 170 simple preschool activities that use everyday materials. You don’t need to invest a lot of money to teach your child at home.
  • Activities are short, with minimal prep, so you can fit some learning into your busy day.
  • The book is organized into nine categories of learning; literacy, math, science, sensory, art, fine motor, gross motor, social-emotional, and bedtime reading tips.
  • Everyday Preschool activity book was created using various state standards for PreK and has tips for making activities easier or harder to fit your child.
  • An Appendix filled with an extensive book list links to free printables, song lyrics, nursery rhymes, my favorite playdough recipe, and more.

HERE IS A SNEAK PEEK INSIDE EVERYDAY PRESCHOOL

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FAQs

How To Teach A 3 Year Old To Write? ›

Most children at this age will be able to write their name, write some letters of the alphabet, and draw simple shapes.

Should my 3 year old be writing? ›

Most children at this age will be able to write their name, write some letters of the alphabet, and draw simple shapes.

At what age should a child start writing? ›

By ages four to five, children will start writing letters.

One of the easiest ways children learn how to write letters is to begin tracing them. Additionally, teaching your child how to write his/her name is an important step that will ultimately help them become familiar with writing the rest of the alphabet.

What should 3 year olds know academically? ›

Children this age are starting to learn about numbers and counting. Help your child develop his language skills by speaking to him in longer sentences than his, using real words. Repeat what he says, for example, “need nana,” and then show how to use more “grown-up” words by saying, “I want a banana.”

How high can a 3 year old count? ›

Most 3-year-olds can count to three and know the names of some of the numbers up to ten. Your child is also starting to recognize numbers from one to nine.

What is advanced for a 3 year old? ›

By age 3, a gifted child's language may already resemble adult speech. They are able to use time markers, like now, later, first, and then, which—along with their advanced vocabulary and more complete sentences—allow them to carry on full conversations with adults.

How do I start my toddler writing skills? ›

Before getting started
  1. Provide a place. ...
  2. Provide the materials. ...
  3. Brainstorm. ...
  4. Encourage the child to draw and to discuss her drawings. ...
  5. Ask your child to tell you simple stories as you write them down. ...
  6. Encourage your child to write her name. ...
  7. Use games. ...
  8. Turn your child's writing into books.

What is the first step in writing for toddlers? ›

Drawing is the start of handwriting for toddlers, usually at around 2 years. Drawing starts with making marks or scribbles on paper and other surfaces. At first, toddlers usually move markers, crayons or chalk back and forth across paper. Gradually, they gain more control and might try to make lines and curves.

What age is too late to start writing? ›

Writing and publishing, with all its knockbacks, disappointments and need for an unwavering sense of perseverance, could have been a much more crushing experience had I gone into it completely alone. Writing has no age limits. Your right to express yourself has no start or expiry date.

Should a child read or write first? ›

According to a study by Tahzeem Ryan, a masters student for Science in Education, he observed that teaching writing before reading is beneficial to children for three main reasons: Efficiency – teaching writing simultaneously teaches children to read.

Is it normal for 4 year olds not to write? ›

We expect children who are ages 4-6 to color and to learn to write their letters, but sometimes they aren't mature enough to do these things, yet. This is especially true for boys who can lag behind in this area.

Should a 3 year old know ABC? ›

Around age 3: Kids may recognize about half the letters in the alphabet and start to connect letters to their sounds. (Like s makes the /s/ sound.) Around age 4: Kids often know all the letters of the alphabet and their correct order. Around kindergarten: Most kids can match each letter to the sound it makes.

Should a 3 year old be potty trained? ›

Potty training success hinges on physical, developmental and behavioral milestones, not age. Many children show signs of being ready for potty training between ages 18 and 24 months. However, others might not be ready until they're 3 years old. There's no rush.

What should a gifted 3 year old know? ›

Knows many letters, colors, and numbers. The brightest gifted children often know how to count and organize by quantities, know many colors and shades, and know the alphabet in order or isolation.

What is the average handwriting of a 3 year old? ›

Between the ages of 3-4 years an average child will:

Pre-Writing Strokes – Between 3-4 years of age, children should be able to copy vertical and horizontal lines, and circles, without a demonstration from their parents. By 3.5 years, they should also be able to imitate you when you draw a plus sign.

How do you know if your 3 year old has behavioral problems? ›

Signs and symptoms of challenging behaviour
  • defiance (e.g. refusing to follow your requests)
  • fussiness (e.g. refusal to eat certain foods or wear certain clothes)
  • hurting other people (e.g. biting, kicking)
  • excessive anger when the child doesn't get their own way.
  • tantrums.

Is it normal for a 4 year old to struggle with writing? ›

All young kids have some difficulty when it comes to writing or perfecting penmanship. But if your child's handwriting is consistently distorted or unclear, that may be caused by a learning disability called dysgraphia. This is a nervous system problem that affects the fine motor skills needed to write.

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